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I listened to Good for a Girl by Lauren Fleshman with my wife. She was hooked immediately, not that I was surprised. So much of Fleshman’s story as a young runner hit home. My wife was also a star in track and cross country back in the day. (Okay, still a star.) This book hit her so hard she immediately recommended it to a high school cross country coach. Why? To be better equipped to actually help young female athletes.
Fleshman doesn’t sugarcoat it. She talks about eating disorders, puberty, and the pressure to perform in a sport designed by men, for men. The result is part memoir and part manifesto. It’s personal, raw, and eye-opening. It’s a compelling read even if you’ve never laced up a pair of spikes. Or, you know, attempted to train through a period, developing breasts, etc. Basically, if you’re a dude like me, you should still read this book. (And maybe some of these other running reads!)
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Good for a Girl by Lauren Fleshman
Full title — Good for a Girl: A Woman Running in a Man’s World
Lauren Fleshman’s Good for a Girl is both a personal memoir and a critique of the system she grew up in. Fleshman was one of the best American distance runners of her era: five NCAA titles at Stanford, U.S. champion, world finalist. On paper, she had it all. But behind the success, she battled against a system never designed with female athletes in mind. She writes honestly about eating disorders, injuries, and the way puberty hits girls like a wrecking ball in a sport built around the male body. Her story captures the pressure to fit into that broken system.
The book isn’t just a “my career” recap. Fleshman uses her experiences to show how women in sports are constantly asked to contort themselves (sometimes literally) to fit a mold. From coaches who ignored basic biology to sponsors who only valued women when it was marketable, Fleshman makes it clear: the playing field was never level. Good for a Girl is a rallying cry, confession, and guide for how things need to change.
Who is Lauren Fleshman?
Lauren Fleshman was one of the best American distance runners of the 2000s. She won five NCAA titles at Stanford, became a U.S. champion in the 5000m, and raced at the World Championships. Despite all that, the Olympics stayed just out of reach. After retiring, she turned her focus to coaching, writing, and advocating for female athletes. She’s also a business owner, co-founder of Picky Bars, and a mom.
Find Lauren here: laurenfleshman.com
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Now onto the rating! Good for a Girl by Lauren Fleshman Review:
Overall Book Awesomeness Score: 5/5
I listened to the audiobook twice. That’s how good it was. Informative, entertaining, and well-written. (Well-spoken, since I went audio.)
This one had everything. Childhood family stories. Falling in love with running as a kid. College highs and lows. Injuries and persistence. Business ventures. Disappointments. Epiphanies about what it means to be a female athlete. All packed into one book.
Things I liked:
- Fleshman is a great storyteller. Bonus entertainment points for dynamic audiobook narration!
- Deep (but accessible) dive into the struggles of young female athletes. Body image. Puberty. Periods. Breast development. Female athlete triad. Eating disorders. All stuff I’d never really thought about. (Yes, I know – because I’m a guy.)
Things I didn’t like:
- I’m a guy who appreciates a clean literary adventure: little to no cursing, no explicit content, no Green Bay Packers fans, etc. This one had a bit of colorful language. Never a dealbreaker for me, but worth noting in case you are allergic to F-bombs.
Have you read any other great running books? Send suggestions my way in the comments!
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